{"id":46887,"date":"2025-02-27T15:08:47","date_gmt":"2025-02-27T20:08:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mjtsai.com\/blog\/?p=46887"},"modified":"2025-03-17T11:32:48","modified_gmt":"2025-03-17T15:32:48","slug":"our-changing-relationship-with-apple","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mjtsai.com\/blog\/2025\/02\/27\/our-changing-relationship-with-apple\/","title":{"rendered":"Our Changing Relationship With Apple"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/inessential.com\/2024\/01\/17\/corporations_are_not_to_be_loved.html\">Brent Simmons<\/a> (2024):<\/p>\n<blockquote cite=\"https:\/\/inessential.com\/2024\/01\/17\/corporations_are_not_to_be_loved.html\">\n<p>Apple&rsquo;s positive effect on my life should not be underestimated. [&#8230;] But I need to remember, now and again, that Apple is a corporation, and corporations aren&rsquo;t people, and they can&rsquo;t love you back. You wouldn&rsquo;t love GE or Exxon or Comcast &mdash; and you shouldn&rsquo;t love Apple. It&rsquo;s not an exception to the rule: there are no exceptions.<\/p>\n<p>Apple doesn&rsquo;t care about you personally in the least tiny bit, and if you were in their way somehow, they would do whatever their might &mdash; effectively infinite compared to your own &mdash; enables them to deal with you.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/mastodon.social\/@marcoarment\/113998984431907111\">Marco Arment<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote cite=\"https:\/\/mastodon.social\/@marcoarment\/113998984431907111\">\n<p>This week&rsquo;s Under The Radar is significant, therapeutic, and my favorite episode in recent memory:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.relay.fm\/radar\/312\">Our Changing Relationship with Apple<\/a><\/p>\n<p>How our values have diverged and our perceived relationship has changed with Apple, forcing our motivations for iOS development to evolve.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/lapcatsoftware.com\/articles\/2023\/11\/2.html\">Jeff Johnson<\/a> (2023):<\/p>\n<blockquote cite=\"https:\/\/lapcatsoftware.com\/articles\/2023\/11\/2.html\"><p>I&rsquo;m organizing a boycott of Apple&rsquo;s Feedback Assistant, starting immediately, and I encourage all Apple developers to join me.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.massicotte.org\/leverage\">Matt Massicotte<\/a> (<a href=\"https:\/\/mastodon.social\/@mattiem\/114019328184949846\">Mastodon<\/a>):<\/p>\n<blockquote cite=\"https:\/\/www.massicotte.org\/leverage\">\n<p>To put it mildly, I have been struggling with this. I have been trying to find ways to respond. Something that could give me some kind of <strong>leverage<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n<p>Apple relies heavily on feedback from third-party developers to find bugs in new APIs and OSes. Because of their development cycle, this is <strong>especially<\/strong> critical during a beta period.<\/p>\n\n<p>So I&rsquo;m just no longer going to use Feedback Assistant. I will not use beta OSes. I will not share crash reports for Apple software. Because of Swift&rsquo;s exclusive use of X, I will no longer participate in the Swift forums or evolution process. I will also actively discourage others from doing these things.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/mastodon.cloud\/@drewmccormack\/114044406940768315\">Drew McCormack<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote cite=\"https:\/\/mastodon.cloud\/@drewmccormack\/114044406940768315\">\n<p>For him to swear off participating in the Swift Forums is immense, knowing how active he has been. I feel the same way.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n<p>Swift has since <a href=\"https:\/\/mastodon.social\/@swiftlang\">joined Mastodon<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/mastodon.social\/@tolmasky\/114020045061472398\">Francisco Tolmasky<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote cite=\"https:\/\/mastodon.social\/@tolmasky\/114020045061472398\">\n<p>People haven&rsquo;t put 2 and 2 together that Apple doesn&rsquo;t give a shit about developers or their feedback. You&rsquo;d think after years of being <em>notoriously known for never acknowledging or responding to feedback<\/em> people might take the hint, but instead they construct a fantasy where it&rsquo;s some prized asset they don&rsquo;t want you to know about. Look at the new Settings. You think Apple cares about software quality? Apples ideal state is you making them 30% and never bugging them.<\/p>\n<p>To be clear, I&rsquo;m not saying &ldquo;file feedback&rdquo; to get back at them! I&rsquo;m saying &ldquo;he&rsquo;s just not that into you&rdquo;. You&rsquo;re not gonna fix him babe. You wouldn&rsquo;t work this hard to reform Google or Facebook, right? Apple just sent their army of lawyers to defend Google&rsquo;s web monopoly. Time to wake up, they&rsquo;re not on your team. There is no version of participating in their closed ecosystem that somehow &ldquo;fixes the problem from the inside&rdquo; or whatever you think might happen aside from a revenue relationship.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/mastodon.social\/@chockenberry\/114019922990763673\">Craig Hockenberry<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote cite=\"https:\/\/mastodon.social\/@chockenberry\/114019922990763673\">\n<p>Empires crumble. This is how Apple&rsquo;s begins.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n<p>I think <em>peak<\/em> Apple was somewhere around 2010. But the innovations and progress since are underrated, and I don&rsquo;t think it&rsquo;s crumbling in any sort of business sense. Even if you think they&rsquo;ve lost their quality or design or moral authorities&mdash;which I think are all true to varying degrees, but these are not binaries&mdash;what would the effect of that actually be? What alternative do people have?<\/p>\n\n<p>Boycotting seems futile to me, but I support Johnson and Massicotte participating or not participating however is best for them. It&rsquo;s healthy to reevaluate your goals, how you spend your time, and how your actions play into the bigger picture. To me, the main point is that there isn&rsquo;t really a <em>relationship<\/em> with Apple and never was. It&rsquo;s in <em>our<\/em> heads, which actually means it&rsquo;s under <em>our<\/em> control. Not <em>Apple<\/em>, but how we <em>think<\/em> about Apple.<\/p>\n\n<p>I think Arment and Tolmasky have it right, which is that Apple&rsquo;s going to do what it&rsquo;s going to do. Mostly, all we get to decide is whether or not we want to play in their sandbox. If you do, make it about the satisfaction of what you&rsquo;re building and about serving your customers and a community that shares your values. Apple should be seen as a tool to those ends, not as a parent or partner or religion. Such expectations will only lead to disappointment.<\/p>\n\n<p>Previously:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/mjtsai.com\/blog\/2025\/02\/26\/testimony-on-external-purchase-fee-and-scare-screens\/\">Testimony on External Purchase Fee and Scare Screens<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/mjtsai.com\/blog\/2025\/02\/21\/apple-pulls-icloud-advanced-data-protection-from-uk\/\">Apple Pulls iCloud Advanced Data Protection From UK<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/mjtsai.com\/blog\/2025\/02\/03\/2024-six-colors-apple-report-card\/\">2024 Six Colors Apple Report Card<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/mjtsai.com\/blog\/2025\/01\/31\/a-few-words-about-indie-app-business\/\">A Few Words About Indie App Business<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/mjtsai.com\/blog\/2024\/12\/27\/apple-to-defend-google-revenue-sharing-agreement\/\">Apple to Defend Google Revenue Sharing Agreement<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/mjtsai.com\/blog\/2024\/09\/17\/glowtime-ennui\/\">Glowtime Ennui<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/mjtsai.com\/blog\/2024\/08\/13\/wrong-about-the-app-store\/\">Wrong About the App Store<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/mjtsai.com\/blog\/2024\/05\/29\/can-anyone-but-a-tech-giant-build-the-next-big-thing\/\">Can Anyone But a Tech Giant Build the Next Big Thing?<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/mjtsai.com\/blog\/2023\/11\/17\/mail-extension-postmortem\/\">Mail Extension Postmortem<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/mjtsai.com\/blog\/2023\/06\/09\/feedback-through-an-intermediary\/\">Feedback Through an Intermediary<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/mjtsai.com\/blog\/2023\/01\/27\/the-enshittification-of-all-things\/\">The Enshittification of All Things<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/mjtsai.com\/blog\/2022\/06\/08\/system-settings\/\">System Settings<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/mjtsai.com\/blog\/2020\/06\/19\/have-you-contributed-any-revenue\/\">Have You Contributed Any Revenue?<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/mjtsai.com\/blog\/2019\/10\/11\/mail-data-loss-in-macos-10-15\/\">Mail Data Loss in macOS 10.15<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/mjtsai.com\/blog\/2018\/05\/18\/the-developers-union\/\">The Developers Union<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/mjtsai.com\/blog\/2018\/02\/17\/nowhere-else-to-go\/\">Nowhere Else to Go<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/mjtsai.com\/blog\/2014\/10\/11\/apples-software-quality-decline\/\">Apple&rsquo;s Software Quality Decline<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n<p id=\"our-changing-relationship-with-apple-update-2025-03-03\">Update (2025-03-03): See also: <a href=\"https:\/\/news.ycombinator.com\/item?id=43219182\">Hacker News<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n<p id=\"our-changing-relationship-with-apple-update-2025-03-12\">Update (2025-03-12): See also <a href=\"https:\/\/mastodon.social\/@danielpunkass\/114130767214008591\">this thread<\/a> and reporting bugs to Apple.<\/p>\n\n<p id=\"our-changing-relationship-with-apple-update-2025-03-17\">Update (2025-03-17): <a href=\"https:\/\/atp.fm\/630\">ATP 630<\/a> discusses Thoughts on Feedback.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Brent Simmons (2024): Apple&rsquo;s positive effect on my life should not be underestimated. [&#8230;] But I need to remember, now and again, that Apple is a corporation, and corporations aren&rsquo;t people, and they can&rsquo;t love you back. You wouldn&rsquo;t love GE or Exxon or Comcast &mdash; and you shouldn&rsquo;t love Apple. It&rsquo;s not an exception [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"apple_news_api_created_at":"2025-02-27T20:08:50Z","apple_news_api_id":"9a099642-48dd-4577-932c-8a68947a2df5","apple_news_api_modified_at":"2025-03-17T15:32:51Z","apple_news_api_revision":"AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAABA==","apple_news_api_share_url":"https:\/\/apple.news\/AmgmWQkjdRXeTLIpolHot9Q","apple_news_coverimage":0,"apple_news_coverimage_caption":"","apple_news_is_hidden":false,"apple_news_is_paid":false,"apple_news_is_preview":false,"apple_news_is_sponsored":false,"apple_news_maturity_rating":"","apple_news_metadata":"\"\"","apple_news_pullquote":"","apple_news_pullquote_position":"","apple_news_slug":"","apple_news_sections":"\"\"","apple_news_suppress_video_url":false,"apple_news_use_image_component":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[38,1143,101,31,30,2109,1227],"class_list":["post-46887","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-technology","tag-apple","tag-apple-software-quality","tag-business","tag-ios","tag-mac","tag-radar-and-feedback-assistant","tag-top-posts"],"apple_news_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mjtsai.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/46887","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mjtsai.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mjtsai.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mjtsai.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mjtsai.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=46887"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/mjtsai.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/46887\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":47099,"href":"https:\/\/mjtsai.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/46887\/revisions\/47099"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mjtsai.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=46887"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mjtsai.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=46887"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mjtsai.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=46887"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}